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Mia Vega-Ayala's avatar

Thank you for sharing such a powerful and honest reflection. Your words are a beautiful reminder of how much power the past can hold over us if we let it. But also, how much freedom there is in choosing to release it. You’re right: the words and wounds from the past, especially when they come from those closest to us, can linger far longer than we realize. And when we keep replaying those old tapes in our minds; what they said, what they did, how it made us feel, we end up building invisible walls around our progress, our peace, and even our purpose.

I love what you said:

“You’ll waste your life not wearing cute dresses because of what someone said back in 1997.”

That’s real. And it applies to so much more than just dresses. We hold back our voices, our gifts, our dreams, our joy all because of something (or someone) that was never meant to define us.

But your shift is inspiring. Asking God to help you forgive, releasing those who hurt you, and lifting your self-esteem that’s the path to healing. And it takes courage. You’re not just wearing the dress now, you’re walking in purpose.

As for me? I think many people carry something a rejection, a label, a loss that tries to whisper lies into their future. But your testimony is proof that we can let go. We can move on. And we can step into the “new thing” God is doing.

So yes today, not yesterday, is where the miracle lives.

Let’s be brave enough to leave the past where it belongs, and bold enough to walk freely into the beautiful future waiting for us.

Thank you for this. ❤️

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Bria Catherine's avatar

So much truth here! Holding on only weighed you down, but choosing freedom unlocked your healing.🙌🏾 God is doing a new thing!!! and I am so glad you’re walking in it.. with your dress on and your head held high sis! ♥️

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